Short King Spring: Don’t Overlook the Shorter Man
In the world of dating, there's a prevailing notion that taller men have an edge. But this is a belief we need to toss out the window and start focusing in on more important factors that contribute to compatibility.
Height should not be a determining factor in finding a partner, and here's why.
Height Statistics in the United States
In the United States, the average height for adult men is 5’ 9”. This means that a significant portion of the male population falls below this average and only 14% of adult males are over 6’.
Why Height Doesn't Matter
Compatibility: Personality, values and compatibility are not determined by height. Traits like kindness, intelligence, and a good sense of humor are far more important in the long run to determine what life will be like with someone.
Shared Values and Goals: Shared values and life goals are crucial for a successful relationship and also have no connection to height. Do you both have a long term vision to get married and have a family? To stay childfree and travel the world? Whatever the goal is - a shared vision is way more important than how tall the high heels are that you can wear when you go out together.
Physical Attraction can Evolve: Physical attraction is subjective and varies from person to person, but just because you think you have a type doesn’t mean what you’re attracted to can’t evolve or even surprise you. When you grow a connection with a person who has more in common with you, a shared sense of humor and a shared vision for life - and who is caring, kind and treats you with love and respect - that connection can embed itself so much more deeply in your life than a purely physical connection.
Communication and Vulnerability: The best way to grow an intimate connection and create chemistry centers far more around communication and vulnerability. When you can have honest, authentic and meaningful conversations and truly feel comfortable being yourself around a potential partner - that is a much better indicator of long-term success than any single physical characteristic like height, hair color or anything else.
All in all, we want to encourage you to think about placing way less importance on height in your search for your special someone. While a lot of cultural norms may suggest otherwise, it's important to remember that every individual is unique, and true compatibility goes far beyond physical attributes. Focus on finding someone who shares your values, respects you, and makes you happy, regardless of their height.